Is it the looks or the heart people go for??

I have always seen people say that it has been the heart or rather the brain that people have to go with and not the looks.But is it true thats whats happenin in this present world that is supposedly not chauvinistic,not racial,not partial??Have you ever seen people interested in flirting with others who are physically challenged or look bad??NO!!Lets face it......looks do tell everything nowadays....n its a bad sign of how the world is changing.......All my life i have gone thro hardship n betrayal that i dont think it is the heart that people look in for.I hope u can make out what kind of a person i am from my first blog!!but i dont want u ppl to think i am showin off..seriously!!there are a lot of issues that needs addressing in the present world that needs to be seen into.....but do people ever think about all that in this present day world is all i am thinking about...:o.......i seriously have a feelin that i have been left out alone to fight this ugly world which thinks its beautifying itself every minute by making up for the looks on the outside.....and i guess tht is the happenin fad that ppl fall for rite now......the other day....when i went out to the orphanage dirtily dressed....the ppl didnt care bout whether i give the orphans the little love tht i have....but were more concerned for when i would be sending the money my grandmom sends every month to them.....i dont deny that they might have been in a position that might hve been a bit bad....that they might hve needed that for the food or clothing for the orphans...but nevertheless....the way they treated me....was it right??i go around everyday lookin at children workin on the roads n involved in child labour......but am helpless....not able to anything but cry within myself....i have a feeling of anger and rage within me that i am not abel to let out...but thro a blog.....what is the world coming to??the pollution...on the other hand....is getting worse....and on another....the ppl who belong to neither of the sexes.....who wud they go to when they are in trouble??what about those who have lost limbs??all those handicapped??all those old aged ppl left alone by their children??what about all those suffering from mental n physical disability??do we ever think about them??even if we do....have we ever,ever in our life done anything to help them??just think about it....keep thinking for sumtime.....i guess its a way of the god to punish the bad ppl of this world....but watever it is....as god says.....we have to even pardon our enemies....n i believe in "service to mankind,is service to god".....i really dont want to spend any money on myself from this moment on....and its been that way for over about 6 years....since my 10th grade tht is.....anyway...thts it for now....will get bak wit much more issues.....thnx for hvin patience thro my blog...do comment.....please.....